I had a Dream and I Tried It

Diane Crump:

A Horse-Racing Pioneer’s Life InThe Saddle

A New Book by Mark Shrager

A horse loving girl, Diane Crump. Image courtesy of Mark Shrager and Diane Crump

“’Hey, Bert, there’s a woman jockey riding in the Kentucky Derby this year, first time that’s ever happened. Can you believe it? And her name is Crump. Coincidence, huh?’” Said a squad member to Bert Crump, persuading him to join the others in listening to the Armed Forces Radio broadcast of the Kentucky Derby. Bert was tired from a tough day in the field in Vietnam. “There was only one possible explanation for a woman named Crump riding in the Kentucky Derby and coincidence had nothing to do with it,” says Bert in his recollection of that day. He asked if her first name was Diane. “Yea, that’s her name – Diane Crump, do you know her?” said the man. “It’s my sister!” replied Bert. That was on May 2, 1970. Jockey, Diane Crump made racing history that day. “It was a surreal feeling being in Vietnam . . .while my sister rode in the Kentucky Derby with my buddies cheering her on,” recounts Bert in Mark Shrager’s book, Diane Crump A Horse-Racing Pioneer’s Life in the Saddle.

Cover – Diane Kissing Fathom, her Derby Horse – Image courtesy of Publisher, Lyons Press

An image of the book cover caught my eye while I perused Facebook posts. I quickly returned to the image and learned of the newly published book. Being an insatiable horse girl myself, I had to know more. I remembered the furor of a female jockey in the Kentucky Derby. “What’s the big deal?” I had thought, “As long as  they are good to the horse, stay on, and stay out of the way of the other horses, what difference is it if a man or a woman is riding?.”

I had to feature the new book about this remarkable athlete who happened to share my passions for horses, riding, and speed. After some introductory emails, making “friends” with Mark Shrager and Diane Crump on Facebook, and a unique relationship formed. I read the book, underlining important aspects and dog-earing corners of pages. I wrote a first draft.

I reread the book. This time, I put little sticky arrows on the pages I wanted to cite. “Passion.” “Love of the horse.” “Had to ride.” “Exhilaration of speed.” “She wanted to inhale the atmosphere, to ride, to care for horses, to learn everything about them,”  “… yearned for …having dramatic horseback adventures… being with close friends, in a school-free environment, and riding, riding, riding, ”writes Mark. He talks about “Diane’s unstoppable work ethic.”

It is important to understand that certain people are born with an “extra gene” – the gene that makes horses irresistible – their fragrance (some might call it an odor; a stench), their sweat, their breath, their silken hair, their eyelashes, their snorts (and yes, their gas and gut sounds are thrilling), their personalities, and their many “buttons.” This book is about such a woman.

What makes the story in the book special is that Diane’s mother encouraged her to “Follow your dreams.” Jean Crump was her daughter’s biggest advocate. She became Diane’s horse-riding  friends’ favorite mother. Many of her friends wished for a mother just like her. What they did not know in their childhood was that Jean was special not only for her nurturing and encouraging her daughter’s  horse passion, but for her unwavering trust in her faith and her remarkable dreams that she wrote down and often illustrated in paintings.

On my third reading of the book, it became clear that while this is a story about horse-racing, riding, and a tenacious woman, it is also about a mother’s journey with God, who, trusting through her faith, opened her hand and let her little bird fly. It took tremendous faith to agree to let the 16-year-old Diane travel with a racehorse trainer and live in unfamiliar housing with people she had never met so that she could to continue her horse training and riding journey. Her faith quelled her concerns.

Mark Shrager Image courtesy of Mark Shrager

“How did you happen to select Diane’s story for your book,” I asked Mark. He replied that he had finished his prior book, The Great Sweepstakes of 1877, and was looking to write the next book. He had made many friends on Facebook through his first book .Diane was one of those friends. He told me, “When I realized there had been no books written about her I called and asked whether I might write her biography.  I was excited to tell the story of an amazing person who was so much more than just a jockey.”

Diane was ready to tell her story. Diane settled in Virginia. While no longer racing, she is a horse broker. She said, “I wanted to find someone to stick to the principal of what I wanted told. Mark did exactly that.”

Author, Mark Shrager,  lives in California. He has been handicapping horse races since his high school days. He is not a rider. His father was adamantly opposed to gambling and horse racing. “I got into handicapping mostly to annoy my father, but I won enough money with which to buy my first car, ” he said. Two people, living on opposite coasts; with different parental experiences; a Christian woman and a Jewish man; happened to share the exact birthdate – 3000 miles apart – Mark in Los Angeles and Diane in Connecticut as their birth state. A writer / handicapper and a jockey, came together to tell a remarkable story.

In speaking with both Mark and Diane, I asked whether the book result was what they had expected. Mark told me, “The happiest part of this process was Diane reading it and telling me, ‘This is exactly what I wanted! Thank you!’” Diane added, “It leaves nothing out without saying too much!”

Diane (second from right) on Bridle ‘n Bit PC: Jim Raftety – Keenland Library Collection Courtesy of Mark Shrager

When you read the book, you will discover that it is packed with thrills, adventures, and against-all-odds finishes. You will learn about a tousle in a match race with an encroaching jockey holding her saddle cloth to slow her horse, and about the incomparable feeling of crossing the finish line first. Mark’s elegant storytelling made my heart beat faster as I imagined the wind in my ears and the sound of thundering hooves upon the track.

It is not often that horse racing and Christian faith turn up in the same sentence, much less in the same book. Like an onion with many layers, the book wraps a child’s heart for a pony; with a will to ride and a love for speed; with a faithful mother (and supportive father and family); with grit, focus, and determination;  covered by love and grace. 

The  little girl who loved horses shattered the bias and presumption that “Racing is too tough for women.” In this book, you will read about how Diane’s love of horses and riding and her focus in spite of protests and objections, sustained her throughout her career. She rode a thousand morning workouts, on a thousand difficult, opinionated thoroughbreds that no one else would ride. “I rode every bad tempered horse …, if they reared up, ran off, if they were stupid, that’s what I got. I had to prove myself over and over again.” She raced in an “Under the microscope atmosphere that no other jockey in history had ever experienced,” writes Mark. She lived her dream and rode in the Kentucky Derby. Diane’s message is about the faith and grace that took her to the heights of her profession and that continue sustain her.

Diane discussing pre-race strategy with trainer Tom Calumet – PC: Jim Raftery – Keenland Library Collection courtesy of Mark Shrager

Mark dedicates the book to “Every female athlete everywhere.” He told me, “What awakened my interest in women athletes was Diane.  Learning all she’d gone through to be a jockey led me to recognize that women athletes in many sports were probably encountering the same sorts of prejudice and negativity Diane confronted.  Dedicating the book to female athletes was my way of encouraging them to live their dreams and overcome the naysayers, like Diane did.”

This book is about horse racing. It is about women’s equity. It about a young girl’s determination to learn about horse and to ride them.  It is about faith. The message is universal. The book is available in hardback and on Kindle . It is a must read for every parent with a passionate child, every horse-crazed person, for people of faith and for those in search of theirs, and for everyone who loves to root for the underdog.

You Can’t Hide a Piece of Broccoli in a Glass of Milk

A “Pearl of Wisdom” From Barbara Bush’s Latest Book,

Pearls of Wisdom

A journalist with  USA Today, Jean Becker, ultimately  became the chief of staff for former President George Herbert Walker Bush, deputy press secretary for former First Lady, Barbara Bush, and oversaw the opening of the George Bush Presidential Library Center.

That is a long way from the newsroom. What happened? Jean was  assigned to the 1988 election team. She wrote feature articles about the candidates. She wrote a column about  the ‘Candidates at Home.’ “ I met everyone,” said, Jean. “The wives of the presidential candidates, Barbara Bush and Kitty Dukakis, wrote weekly columns and I was assigned to edit them. I wound up loving it,” shared Jean. “I gained much respect for both women. I tried to catch up with them every week. I mostly worked with Kitty’s press secretary, but Barbara wrote her own. We discussed her column every Sunday night,” recalled Jean. After George H.W. Bush won the presidential election, USA Today assigned Jean to be imbedded in the inauguration activities. “ I got to hang out with the Bush family,” she told me,

Mrs. Bush confers with Jean Becker as she prepares to participate in television interviews with various media outlets at the RNC Convention in Houston, Texas. 18 August 1992 Photo Credit: George Bush Presidential Library and Museum

Fast forward to 2020  – Jean never left the Bush family. “Among the many wonderful and unexpected benefits of my time with the Bush family, was to witness the great love story between President Bush and Mrs. Bush,” she shared.

Of her position with former President Bush, she recalls, “President Bush called me to his office one day in 1994, and told me, ‘Barbara thinks you would be a good place holder until we figure things out,’ about the recently vacated chief of staff position. I agreed to help for a short period of time. Well, that conversation never surfaced again. I dove in with both feet. I never left.”

Jean went from living in Washington, D.C. to spending summers in Kennebunkport, Maine and the rest of the year in Houston, Texas. She was chief of staff, editor, and family friend.

Barbara Bush with Jean Becker at the Presidential Trust reception in St. Louis, Missouri, 16 Sep 1992, Photo Credit: George Bush Presidential Library and Museum

Jean helped with and edited Mrs. Bush’s memoirs and subsequent books. After Mrs. Bush passed away in 2018, with a trove of her writings, speeches, and so many family members and friends reminiscing about her wisdom and love, the book, Pearls of Wisdom -Little Pieces of Advice (That Go a Long Way), came to life.  Jean explained, “Barbara Bush is the author because these were her thoughts, words, and wisdom. She wrote most of her own speeches [she was a good writer] – I helped edit them. For the book, I compiled, organized, and added context.”  Jean writes in the ‘Author’s Note,’ “It is indeed written in her voice and in her spirit.”

Pearls of Wisdom is written in three voices, Mrs. Bush’s, her family’s and friends’, with Jean Becker’s, as narrator. “  Barbara’s advice is impossible to miss. It is printed in bold.

Barbara Bush was the mother of 6 children. She was the First Lady of the United States. She was the wife of the Vice President of the United States,  of a US congressman,  of the US Ambassador  to the United Nations, of the Director of the CIA, the mother of the 43rd President of the United States and 46th Governor of Texas,  and the mother of the 43rd Governor of Florida. Barbara was an accomplished author with four published books before Pearls of Wisdom. She was all that in a single lifetime. She was the love of former President George H. W.  Bush’s life. He called her “The Sliver Fox.” No job was too tough or inconvenient for Barbara as long as she and the love of her life were together. She focused on “the good.” What was the secret  to her sanity and success?

She was America’s Mom. She gave advice to her family, friends, politicians, heads of state, Supreme Court Justices, students, and graduates. “After all, in 80 years of living, I have survived 6 children, 17 grandchildren, 6 wars, a book by Kitty Kelly, two presidents, two governors, big Election Day wins and big Election Day losses, and 61 years of marriage to a husband who keeps jumping out of perfectly good airplanes. So, it is just possible that along the way I’ve learned a thing or two,” said Barbara Bush, owning up to her advice-giving.

Jean Becker with Mrs, Bush
Image Courtesy of Jean Becker

Former President, George W. Bush, writes in the book’s Forward, “There are those who might say Mother was bossy. . . opinionated . . . a bit of a blurter. She had a wonderful sense of humor . . . Her honesty came from a heart for others.” He concludes,  “We are better people for having listened to her.”

Family came first for Barbara. Neil Bush credits his mother, “Mom has taught me to be a better parent, a better person, and a better citizen.” According to Neil, Barbara doled out advice about “How to eat, how to dress, how to behave, how to make their bed, whom to date.”  She made her positions quite clear.

Opinions aside, Barbara shared a great love with her family and friends. She gave advice out of love. She encouraged people to “Look for the good in others, to value your friends, enjoy life,  and not to buy what you cannot afford.” Barbara embraced change and was ready and willing to go on to the next adventure. While she took her duties seriously, she did not take herself  seriously. “She said, Birds fly high because they take themselves lightly,” writes Neil Bush.

Former Governor of Florida, Jeb Bush, says of his mother, “She had …plain-spoken wisdom. … a successful life is defined first and foremost by loving your children with all of your heart and soul.” Jeb calls his mother’s form of discipline that of a “benevolent dictatorship.”  According to Jeb, Barbara tried “… to leave this a better world” by the manner of her life and her faith.

Flying to another adventure
Image Courtesy of Jean Becker

Son, Marvin Bush, recalls valuable lessons, “Be on time, be yourself. Love one another. Have a sense of humor.”  He writes, “…we had a front-row seat at one of the greatest love stories that ever existed.”

Daughter, Doro Bush Koch,  credits her mother for teaching her to “lead with love.”

In the many commencement speeches that Barbara gave, she stressed the importance of tolerance, “…Tolerance …is a constant stream of little acts in our daily lives, big and small choices we face every day in the way we think about, and talk about and deal with other human beings.”

Mrs. Bush was an fervent advocate of literacy. She is quoted in the book, “I truly feel that if more people could read, write, and comprehend, so many of our social problems could be solved.” She believed that literacy begins at home.

A few more “Pearls?” “Always be grateful.  Do your summer reading. Listen, learn, lead. Stay current. Be patient. Words matter. Treat everyone equally. You can’t hide a piece of broccoli in a glass of milk. Never pay top dollar for department store lipstick when you can get the same thing at the drug store for a fraction of the cost! Don’t feed Millie”

Pearls of Wisdom, so aptly titled, offers wisdom sprinkled with humor and much love. There is something for everyone. After the many years of working with the Barbara Bush, what is Jean’s take away? “Choose to be happy.”

All author royalties from PEARLS OF WISDOM will be donated to support the Barbara Bush Foundation for Family Literacy.

To get your copy of PEARLS OF WISDOM Little Pieces of Advice (That Go a Long Way) by Barbara Bush

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